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How Do I Clean and Sanitize My Toys? (QOTM January 2022)

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How Do I Clean and Sanitize My Toys? (QOTM January 2022)

Like and other toy or tool sex toys need to be taken care of properly for long term use. In addition to using the correct kind of lube, that means cleaning and sometimes sanitizing them, so that you get the most bang for your buck. When it comes to sex toys, for most uses and users cleaning them is sufficient. In some cases, however you may need to look into actually sanitizing them as well. When is cleaning a toy enough? If you are using the toy on yourself and are using it for the same purpose/orifice, cleaning a toy...

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How do I know if I have an STI? (QOTM Nov 2021)

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How do I know if I have an STI? (QOTM Nov 2021)

How do you know if you have an STI? That’s a difficult question to answer, because there are many STIs with different symptoms for each. The best way to know for sure is to be tested by your doctor, but they even have home tests you can take these days. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimate that there are about 20 million cases of sexually transmitted diseases or infections per year. Roughly half of those occur in people of the age of 15 to 24. The most common symptoms of many STIs include burning or painful sensation...

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QOTM August 2021 - How Can I Get Started with Anal Sex?

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QOTM August 2021 - How Can I Get Started with Anal Sex?

Anal sex is still a taboo topic for many people. Some people will flat out refuse to even consider the act. On the other hand, this taboo can be an incredible turn on for some and engaging in such a “forbidden” or “dirty” act can be extra exciting. And for some anal sex is just another way to expand their sexual repertoire or try new forms of sexual play. Whatever you or your partner’s reason may be to try anal sex, anal play can be very pleasurable and can even lead to extremely intense orgasms. The anus is full of...

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QOTM July 2021 - How Can I Introduce Kink In My Bedroom?

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QOTM July 2021 - How Can I Introduce Kink In My Bedroom?

Maybe you want to spice up your sex life, maybe you are curious to experiment, or maybe you’ve developed a taste for adventure during quarantine. Whatever the reason, you are ready to try some “kinky” things in the bedroom. But you are too embarrassed to ask your partner. What if they think I’m a pervert? What if they decide they never want to see me again?! While it’s understandable to be worried about what your partner will think of you, it might not be as hard as you think to introduce kink to your relationship. (Plus – if they’re going...

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QOTM May 2021: What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

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QOTM May 2021: What Kind of Lube Should I Use?

Personal Lubricants: Applications and Compatibilities Lubes are incredibly versatile and can increase the pleasure in all kinds of sex play (including penetrative and non-penetrative sex and masturbation). They can and are usually utilized to offset dryness or lack of natural lubrication. The use of lubricants can also help make condoms feel more pleasurable and can prevent condoms tearing due to friction or heat (as long as the condom and lube are compatible, see below). There are many types of lubricants available, so it can be daunting to know which is the right one to choose. This guide will assist you...

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