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What is the Difference Between Paddles, Whips, and Canes? QOTM October 2021

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What is the Difference Between Paddles, Whips, and Canes? QOTM October 2021

Believe it or not pain and pleasure are extremely closely related and incorporating these sensations into your sexual play can be massively satisfying. Pain/Impact Play can be quite daunting to get into if you have never played with any of the associated implements. But fear not, we are here to guide you in your first few steps along the path. Whips, floggers, crops, paddles, slappers and canes (oh my!) come in many styles and materials. Once you have tried a few different ones you and your partner will likely find you have a favorite make or material. No matter how...

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QOTM September 2021: What is a menstrual cup?

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QOTM September 2021: What is a menstrual cup?

Menstrual cups are a type of reusable feminine hygiene product. They are small funnel shaped cups, usually made out of silicone or rubber which are inserted into the vagina to catch and collect menstrual fluids. Menstrual cups have been around since 1860s, but only became widely promoted since the 1930s. With recent design changes and the availability of soft silicone materials they have become more widely accepted. Cups can hold more fluid than other period products, so (depending on flow) some people can wear cups for up to 12 hours at a time. Most cups can hold about one to...

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QOTM August 2021 - How Can I Get Started with Anal Sex?

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QOTM August 2021 - How Can I Get Started with Anal Sex?

Anal sex is still a taboo topic for many people. Some people will flat out refuse to even consider the act. On the other hand, this taboo can be an incredible turn on for some and engaging in such a “forbidden” or “dirty” act can be extra exciting. And for some anal sex is just another way to expand their sexual repertoire or try new forms of sexual play. Whatever you or your partner’s reason may be to try anal sex, anal play can be very pleasurable and can even lead to extremely intense orgasms. The anus is full of...

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QOTM July 2021 - How Can I Introduce Kink In My Bedroom?

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QOTM July 2021 - How Can I Introduce Kink In My Bedroom?

Maybe you want to spice up your sex life, maybe you are curious to experiment, or maybe you’ve developed a taste for adventure during quarantine. Whatever the reason, you are ready to try some “kinky” things in the bedroom. But you are too embarrassed to ask your partner. What if they think I’m a pervert? What if they decide they never want to see me again?! While it’s understandable to be worried about what your partner will think of you, it might not be as hard as you think to introduce kink to your relationship. (Plus – if they’re going...

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QOTM June 2021 - How Can I Check Myself for (Testicular) Cancer?

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QOTM June 2021 - How Can I Check Myself for (Testicular) Cancer?

The following statistics will be using gendered language because most testicular cancer statistics come from cases of cisgender males. However, anyone who has testicles can use the self-check recommendations below. If you are worried about your health or have further questions, please talk to your doctor. We are not doctors and thus cannot give medical advice. Testicular cancer is no joke, and can be deadly if not treated early. About 1 out of every 250 men and boys will be diagnosed with testicular cancer during their lifetime. This specific cancer is one of the most commonly diagnosed in young adult...

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