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Skin Hunger & Touch Starvation

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Skin Hunger & Touch Starvation

Humans have a need to touch and be touched by other humans. This refers to all kinds of touch, not just sensual or sexual touching. This includes what some people refer to as “platonic touch”, such as handshakes, friendly hugs, cuddling or even pats on the back. From the moment we are born, as babies, we depend on touch for physical and emotional wellbeing. That is the reason babies are given to their mothers after birth for direct skin contact. This is critical not only for bonding, but it also activates the hormone oxytocin (the so called “love hormone”) which...

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The Ins and Outs of Strap-ons

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The Ins and Outs of Strap-ons

Strap-ons can enhance sexual play for everyone, regardless of gender or sexuality, but the selection can be a bit overwhelming when you’re just beginning. This article is designed to help you understand the many uses of strap-ons, as well as understand the various types. By the end of this you should know exactly what kind of strap-on you are looking for. Strap-on Sex and Misconceptions Misconception 1: Only lesbians use strap-ons. Truth: Strap-on or harness play is often associated with specific gender roles, sexualities, or identities, but they can be enjoyed by all, regardless of sex, sexual orientation, or the...

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QOTM: January 2021 - What exactly is sexuality?

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QOTM: January 2021 - What exactly is sexuality?

What do the words “sex” and “sexuality” mean to you? What do the two have in common and what is the difference between the two? How are they related? When you talk about “sex”, what are you referring to? What besides it would you consider to be a part of sexuality?   Sex and sexuality are concepts and ideas that are broader than what happens with our genitals during “sexual activities”. They are central to what makes us “us”, they are at the core of our identity and shape many aspects of our daily interactions with others and their (and...

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QOTM: What is the difference between butt plugs and prostate massagers?

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QOTM: What is the difference between butt plugs and prostate massagers?

You asked, we answer. So what is the difference between the two? Even though they are used in the same general area, they have different form and function and distinct differences. Butt Plugs Have a flared end They come in many different colors, shapes and sizes, but are usually shaped more or less like a tear drop, have a thinner connecting piece to allow the sphincter to close a bit and then a flared end (*) to stay in place and not get inserted too deep (or get lost in here somewhere, which is s trip to the ER you...

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5 Aphrodisiac Recipes for Thanksgiving

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5 Aphrodisiac Recipes for Thanksgiving

This Thanksgiving will most likely be more intimate than ever before thanks to Covid-19. So after you’ve had your family-friendly virtual dinner, why not enjoy some sensual delights with your partner? The following recipes will tantalize and delight. Chocolate   Photo by Charisse Kenion Everyone knows that chocolate is an aphrodisiac, that’s why it’s so popular for Valentine’s day. But does it really work? Who cares! It tastes good, right? And that’s a good start to getting your engines revved. So why not try this Bacon and Chocolate Brussel Sprouts recipe to sneak chocolate into your feast. (And if this...

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